The Attraction and Energy of Venus in a Man's Chart

 by Ms. Cecelia Ann

I've discussed how the Mars sign shows what type of man women are usually drawn to.  Venus in a man's chart shows the type of female and/or sign he is attracted to. Please note although not generalizations there are exceptions to every rule as other planets make influences also. But chances are you will find yourelf drawn to your Venus sign, time and time again. This is a female with the Sun, Moon, Ascendant, Venus and especially Mars in your Venus. Yes Mars and Venus together will indicate strong passions toward each other, sometimes too hot!

                              Venus through the Signs  

Venus in Aries- When a man has this placement he doesn't like his woman quiet and docile. He's drawn to a fiery, assertive woman, who is not afraid to pick a fight or end one need be. She is courageous, has a little- spoiled brat in her, but this is a turn on. Women with personal planets in this sign would be very attractive to him. 

Venus in Taurus- Unlike the Venus in Aries man, the Venus in Taurus man could stand his woman to be a bit more refined in their mannerisms. This is one of the signs that Venus rules and it shows. She has a quiet, albeit strong personality, that attracts the opposite sex because there is a subtle sensuality about her. She loves to cook, pamper, and show genuine feminine attention to her man. Often this position is very attracted to the Voluptuous built female. All that good cooking may make her a little thick but the Venus in Taurus man would have it no other way. 

Venus in Gemini- A man with Venus in the sign of the communicator must first and foremost be able to articulate with his love interest. Sex appeal starts in the cerebral cortex the largest sex organ in the body. This man loves a woman who is first and foremost, intelligent! She flirts with words, songs, and innuendos. She is a tease for sure, but this is what keeps him coming back again and again. He hates boredom and she is nothing short of exciting. When and if he does get bored, who's that other person ( twin personality), ooohhh she's kinda of bad too. 

Venus in Cancer- A no brainer here he loves the motherly type. He more than likely is looking for a deep soulful connection from the very beginning. Often attracted to the home- loving type his ideal woman would invite him to dinner and cocktails.  She would cook a delicious meal and the conversation would center around family, home, and security. This is the position of the saying "the way to a man's heart is thru his stomach", and he will happily eat well. 

Venus in Leo- We have another man who likes his woman bold and beautiful in either looks and mannerisms. No wallflowers need to apply here. He wants a challenging woman, even domineering, to match his macho tendencies. Why? because he loves a good fight for love and attention. She is indeed a head turner and in love and he thrives to compete to win the crown, the throne, the Queen.

Venus in Virgo- Venus is in its fall in this sign, because it's exalted in Pisces the opposite sign. Venus isn't comfortable here because of the tendency to do too many Virgoan traits. He's attracted also to the strong, intellectual, but unlike her Gemini cousin, also ruled by Mercury, she communicates with purpose. His woman takes care of business, she's not easy to get close too, she has to be worked on. She is the maiden, she has to know his intent before doing things like sharing toothpaste and a bathroom. His female loves cleanliness is organized to a fault, and her keen business sense doesn't go overlooked at all. Doesn't sound sexy huh? Wrong you have to peel this flower layer by layer. That part is most intriguing,fascinating,and arousing, think a Barry White song here. 

Venus in Libra - Ah yes the other sign that Venus rules, this time on the aesthetic, deep, thoughtful, subliminal side. His woman has an (air) about her that she knows what you want and who knows you might get it. Yes, she will toss you up in her mind before you hit a home run. His woman keeps him guessing (because partly she can't make up her mind) and it works for him. He'll think okay how do I get to first, second, third, base? First base turns out to be very exciting and stimulating, so his spirit will say, "Go on". She is lovely in thoughts, looks, and mannerisms. She knows how to get attention and how to keep his. All things beautiful are associated with the woman especially her. 

Venus in Scorpio- We all can anticipate the narrative here, he likes a sexy woman. The dark, mysterious, mystic beauty captures and absorbs his attention. Careful here partner this could be the femme fatale that you see on the movie screen, she might be dangerous. Dangerous? oh now he's really in deep contemplation, you see he likes dangerous. Why does he proceed? Like Evel Knievel, nothing in his mind can harm him cause he's a controlled act also. His woman is always in control, confident she can win and has the strength and determination to take any situation to the end. She is devoted and loyal but only to the one who deserves  (no winning her ) it. OMG, that provocative, alluring, way that she gazes into his eyes absorbing his very soul sends chills down his spine. He thinks maybe I can get her to warm me up also? Yes, he's a daredevil in love. 

Venus in Sagittarius- This is not a looking for a homebody, cooking, cleaning the house placement. This man is attracted to that adventurous girl like the one in the Jurassic Park movie. She is a student of life and has knowledge of many things and if she hasn't gone to many places she will. It's not on her bucket list it's on her to do right now list. He's attracted to fun, bubbly, optimistic and a big beautiful smile that lights up any man's heart woman. The fire and warmth of his ideal female are so contagious and charismatic he might forget she's a woman. Yes, she is like hanging with one of the fellows (she loves sports) except she does have those feminine assets attached at the hips. This placement may also attract you to date and marry someone from a different country. 

Venus in Capricorn- This gentlemen (believe me he is ) is captivated by her delicate discriminating personality. She is elegant but classy in dress, soft-spoken but discerning, cultivated, and well-bred. He wants to take his time to find a good mate who can complement his own ambitions. She has ambitions of her own and also goes slowly into any and all relationships. He relaxes with her, he doesn't have to fight every Tom, Dick, and Harry to get to her. The sophisticated suave taste she possesses has already done that. All he has to do is be a well-mannered  gentleman to a classy, sophisticated woman. 

Venus in Aquarius- he is magnetized to the woman who stands out from the crowd, but not necessarily because she's beautiful. She probably is very beautiful, but there is something "different" about her.  Unlike other women, she will share her thoughts with him first and foremost. Serious thoughts that challenge not only his mind but society in general. She's very friendly and approachable, he likes that its easy for her to relate to him. Quirky, rebellious, avant-guard will describe the woman that engages his attention. Can we be friends first before we become lovers? By all means yes.............................. the highest form of love is friendship. 

Venus in Pisces- Unlike Venus in Aries, our gentleman caller is charmed by the quiet, delicate, gentle wallflower. The strong, insensitive types are a total turn off. She is graceful and ethereal in the way she moves, speaks, and walks. He believes he can be her Knight in shining armor.The soft, fragile, mannerisms she displays touches his heart. He is often enchanted by the dainty, graceful tenderness that this placement exemplifies.  This female appears to be soft and gentle, but she is beautiful like the weeping willow tree, whose branches bend but never break. A woman who will let him have a glimpse of her depths will beguile him every time.